Saturday, 10 March 2012

How much trust do we put in a FB friend ...



Let’s say we meet online, on a common interest page, get chatting on a post and its like we have known each other for years, BUT we don’t.  We start to pm and open up that little more slowly we are pouring our hearts out and the friendship has progressed another level .... or so you think.

One bad post and someone not reading your words but skimming it or because you didn’t put a bloody J or a lol BANG your done bitch how dare you say the sky is purple, its blue, how did I trust you for all these days I thought you had my back bitch .... A FB friend is a friend for life.

Or there’s another way ....

Same again page, post, they are having a whinge and you support their whinge – ahhh look at that your besties now because you can whinge together.

How about this one, the more common –

Page, post, they are attacking someone/or being attacked , you get in on it “its a hate friendship” so now everyone thinks you’re a pack – then one or two more people get in, now you’re a group – a hate group – at every opportunity when someone  sees you are  all in a group everything  and anything that you say, people assume it’s about them, though its not – these people  pm others  warning them out, that “so and so” is talking about you in a group – but they are not using names yet – its brewing – then BANG one stupid twat goes and uses a name – you fuck tard – Screen Dump.  

Then it breaks out, it eats at you, that this person said this and that.

WHY, you just want to know WHY, you start to doubt yourself, you think and think.

Well here is the answer – people don’t read words they skim – just like when you were at school and you’re listening to the teacher out of every 20 words you only take in 7 or some ridiculous amount like that.

Do yourself a favour and really read shit before you open your mouth. Take the time to process it before you take your interpretation and regurgitate it into god knows what.  Stop spreading seeds of doubt, you have no idea of the impact it can have on someone. 

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